Here are 8 style ‘stylish girl’ guidelines definitely worth taking onboard…
There is a theory that no matter what you do in life, you are always communicating something. Body language experts have built entire careers on this theory—as have stylists. They believe (rightfully) that your outfit is not simply a thing with a certain aesthetic appeal; it’s a form of self-expression. Your clothing says something to those around you, whether you intend for it to or not, so it’s best to approach dressing with some form of intention.
Similarly to how your clothing can communicate some of your ideas to those around you, clothes also serve as responses to social situations. There’s a reason you want to dress a certain way for the office, and a certain way when you’re going to a dinner party, and rarely are they the same—because clothing should be used as a method by which you show up to a social event or location and say, “I’m present, and ready for whatever is coming my way.”
You could have on the trendiest, most expensive outfit in the world—but if it doesn’t fit you properly, you’re not going to look stylish, and all your effort and money would have been wasted. Stylist Stacy London advises, “The biggest mistake women make is wearing clothes that don’t fit because they don’t accept the body they have right now. You have to do that in order to figure out what looks good on you. And besides, confidence is the best accessory. It can make or break an outfit.”
Whether you prefer the customized effect of investing in a pair of raw denim jeans, like Vogue market editor Kelly Connor, or simply want a pair of these-will-last-forever jeans, the wardrobe staples are definitely worth investing in. Whereas a less expensive, on-trend pair is fine to grab every now and then, you really need quality denim in your closet to last you from year to year.
Even though it’s true that dressing should be an expression of your self, it’s ill-advised to completely ignore the setting you’re going to be in. For example, just because you feel like wearing that brand new mini to the office doesn’t mean it’s okay for you to do so. It’s healthy and wise to consider both your own desires and your situation when you’re getting dressed.
While we would certainly never discourage you from trying out as many trends as your heart desires, there are right and wrong places to do so. If you’re attending a relative’s wedding, for example, it might not be the best time to bust out those Birkenstocks. Trying out trends is much more appropriate for dressy but not formal social occasions, like nights out with the ladies.
Something as simple as looping your belt a certain way or tucking your shirt in can have a huge impact on your style. Not everything is about making giant overhauls to your closet; the cuff of a shirt sleeve or the roll of a pant hem can totally transform you in an instant.
Above all, no matter what else is true of your personal style, it’s very important to have a signature. Whether it’s a gold bangle you always wear or the fact that you always choose boyfriend jeans over skinnies, figure out what one thing defines your own personal style, and stick with it—until you want to change it, and then feel free to do so.